A Little About My Books

 If I Were to Live Again is a collection of thoughts resulting from a contemplation of life embarked on by the writer when he crossed over into the fourth floor of life. His reflections begin with his growing years in Eastern Nigeria, delve into what he can deliberately do for his own children to create a more predictable life experience for them. Kenneth ponders on other profound life topics such as life plans and early execution, formal and informal education, time management, the boundary between God's responsibility and ours in the eventual outcomes of our lives as well as the impact of our relationships on how our lives unfold. Kenneth has written this book for himself, for everyone under twenty trying to understand what to do next, for everyone over forty battling what some call mid-life crisis and for every young parent who is wants to create a better experience for their children. 

Being alone or being a SINGLE is not a CURSE, it is designed to be a COURSE in productiveness and resourcefulness. Being married will not be all the blessings it is suppose to be if you strolled into it with two idle hands and an unproductive single lifestyle. Get busy, get productive. Prepare for the marriage you so desire. God's plan or design for making Adam ALONE first was not to make him Idle or unproductive the opposite is the reason. We know this by how He (I.e. God) solved the problem of ALONENESS in Adam. Gen.2.18 - "...I will make him a helper (suitable, adapted and complimentary) for him." (Amplified) This means Adam was up to a productive and profitable living as a Single and he needed assistance, Eve was not just a company or a sex mate - she was also his helper, helping him in the work he had. He learnt productivity and resourcefulness by being alone and this further qualified him for partnership in marriage and higher productiveness and resourcefulness. 

A lifelong marriage is a dream most people have when they are growing up. However, we have an alarming divorce rate of over 50% - a trend that does not seem to be slowing down. Something needs to be done to arrest the situation. After years of counseling hundreds of people, I have realized that most relationships fail because people do not know their partners well enough. The problem is that most do not ask enough critical questions before committing to relationships. We wrongly assume that love alone will sustain our unions for a lifetime.

This book is designed to help you identify and ask the most important questions to help you make a better decision on who to settle with. Finding the right match for a partner increases your chances of having a joy-filled loving relationship that can last a lifetime.